don’t waste time being offended….

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When I am offended, I  train my mind to believe that they are hurting me not because      I am who I am but because they are them….     images               In psychoanalytic viewpoint,                       images (3)                those people are not nice because they are probably wounded….

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love’s kiss……

Acceptance is love’s stare….

Let us treat the way they are. Let us accept them without questions about the physical traits, possessions and accomplishments they have. Let us affirm their uniqueness and give them freedom to be themselves…. Let us tell, “it’s okay to be yourself.”

Openness is love’s smile….

Let us open our heart what possibilities love can take us. Let us learn how to communicate not only our deepest thoughts and insights but also our deepest feelings and emotions. Let us be a good sounding board to them and let our listening ear get inside their hearts. Let us determinedly stay in touch and share our life with them.

Respect is love’s touch….

What has meaning for them has meaning for us too. What is important to them is important to us too. What they keep special, we keep special too. What makes them happy makes us happy too. Let us respect them as much as limitations are set in bound.

Patience is love’s caress….

Let us be patient. Let us love them as much as we can do. Sometimes, we get hurt if we know better the persons we hold so dear. But tolerance and patience can heal that hurt. Let us love them like we’ve never been hurt. Let us persevere to accept their flaws and cracks and get them to change their life into better.

 

 

Faith is love’s embrace….

Let us place upon our breasts the love we have for them. Let us nourish our steadfastness through believing in what they do. The faith we entrusted to them will prevail and our oneness will spread through a lifetime. Let our faith in them makes the invisible visible, the intangible tangible and the impossible possible.

Sacrifice is love’s kiss….

                Let us be willing to lose the part of ourselves inspite of our human nature to love ourselves too much. Giving the part of ourself is a sacrifice. Let us believe that true love can outweigh and overtake the pain of loving. It has the power to surpass the sacrifices we endure because love is all that counts.

 

Love’s imprint is goodness….

Let us have nothing intention but goodness. Loving them costs too much goodness. Let us seek their good qualities and bring out the best in them. Let us always appreciate, compliment and congratulate…. whatever tasks they do. To criticize if need be… let us, but let us criticize with love. Let us love them in a constructive way so they may be able to see the purity and deepest joy of being loved.

Love’s character is felicity….

Let us talk to them in tranquility and serenity. Let us offer as much as possible our warmth and affection. Through this, they feel the comfort of our presence. Let us be present when they need a helping hand and crying shoulder. Let us be at their side anytime and anywhere to feel our breath of love.

Let us explore inside our heart to investigate the unseen, unheard and unspoken.

 

 

 

 

 

True love is always against hate….

 

 

 

Let us engulf our inability to hate. Hatred has nothing to do with true love. It is something an excess baggage that should be thrown-up. True love does not know about badness’ gate. It is down-to-earth when it comes to negative feelings. Let us extend our understanding and forgiveness to make love lasts.

True love is never doing it late….

Let us not put our affection in a future schedule. Let us love them right now, at the moment. For as long as we live, we can afford to spend our time and exert our effort for them. There is a definite time to love them and it is now. Let us love them with no strings attached and no condition of time. Let us lay our responsibility and commitment without holding back.

True love is unto infinite date….

Let our love won’t change inspite of shortcomings and unfavorable circumstances. These crises have the capacity to shift our height of passion to continue loving them.

                Our love is like a candle…. a candle will continue burning as long as it lives. Let us say, “there was no other person before my beloved and there won’t be any other person after him/her.” Cognizant of the fact that this statement sound so idealistic and poetic, true love can be unstoppable. It is when we die, someone will hold our hands firmly until our last breath….

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It is stronger than imperfections, stronger than flaws and stronger than weaknesses. It can go beyond the limits placed upon loving because it is changeless and endless. Let our love for them have its chain reaction and go on forever and ever.

Treasure of the Human Spirit……

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What I have drawn a couple of years ago eloquently say that I am not materially rich. Fortune, fame and power….. I have NOTHING….. but I firmly believe that If I have nothing, then I have everything because I have the freedom to do anything without the fear of losing something.”

Materialism can be the root of damnations.  It would be hypocrital to say that wealth, power and fame are not notable but the sad truth is… when it’s our time, what we can only acquire is six feet below the ground.  We cannot bring them to heaven.  Do we create something out of nothing or do we create nothing out of something just for material values?  Material values are lying to tell the truth about damnation.

Simplicity comes at a very low prize than fortune, power and fame. I vouch for the fact that the least happy persons are the ones who believe that fortune, power and fame can satisfy one’s life. There are people who are wealthy, powerful and famous, yet they feel empty and deprived of something that they cannot identify. SO WHAT IS THE TREASURE OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT……?

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ANGER MISPLACED

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I have with me the competitor of God

Being good is enough; it’s time to be bad

It is the demon-substitute on earth

Revenge is my reply to heal my hurt

Anger roles my tongue and dismal face

It backfires in the blood of my human race

Tomorrow will be my red-letter day

I will get the payback and surely be gay

I will slit your throat and break you into pieces

You will suffer and there will be no forgiveness

I will never take my revenge for granted

I am only human whose kindness is limited

I know my plan is between the devil and deep blue sea

But now, I will cancel my anger because I am so busy

Just look fearfully at my eyebrows forming a sharp triangle

Suddenly, there appears a man with wings like an angel

I have a soft spot in my heart…

so forgiveness….. consider it done!

Oh! My anger….. I am actually not having fun!

 

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advocate art…..

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ART is not to shine from a damnable vain-gloriousness and for the satisfaction of human vanity but just to EXPRESS. It is not also to express to people but also to express yourself to yourself…. Thus, ART has benefits…..

 

10 Benefits in EMBRACING ART in Life

  1. It elevates us beyond the mundane and encourages us to search for more adventures in life.
  2. We escape the shadow of predictability which is monotonous and familiar. Once in a while, it’s good to have thrills and surprises.
  3. It gives vitality and sense of playfulness and makes us excited everyday.
  4. It serves as a powerful source of nourishment to live our life more happily and fruitfully.
  5. It challenges our creativity and creativity gives joy and joy puts meaning in our life.
  6. It keeps the child in us and having the child in us unfolds magic, awe and wonder in life.
  7. It drives and motivates us to achieve what we want in life.
  8. It helps us grow because we improve our hidden talents

and skills.

  1. It directs us to new points and angles of life.
  2. It helps us to get in touch and get to know ourselves more.

 

philosophy….

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For the innumerable men and women having thought of my littleness to declare my philosophy, I humbly say that I am one person who is born not to be perfect. However, I maybe a devil’s advocate to profess my philosophy… but I strive to uphold it in life…. So here are my guiding principles in life……

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Adjust instead of abhor the most tense of circumstances…

Befriend instead of bully other people…

Create instead of criticize the crowd…

Develop instead of discourage other people’s talents and skills…

Engage instead of expel social gatherings…

Find instead of flatter other people’s style…

Greet instead of groan to all kinds of people…

Hum instead of harry when under pressure…

Invent instead of imitate mode and craze…

Juggle instead of jump to conclusion…

Keep instead of kick off untried ideas on fashion and style…

Learn instead of laugh at our own idiosyncrasies…

Materialize instead of make believe to be a unique somebody…

Nurture instead of nag interpersonal relationship…

Offer instead of offend other people…

Ponder instead of pause enhancing our uniqueness…

Qualify instead of quit when people question our style…

Radiate instead of reduce winning personality…

Show instead of suppress fashion statement…

Transcend instead of trespass delivering our sense

of individuality…

Undertake instead of undone desirable character…

Visualize instead of vex newly–introduced trend…

Win instead of waver other people’s business…

Be Xtreme instead of Xterminated by our own trademark…

Yield instead of yearn a desire for taste…

Be our target the Zenith instead of Zigzag…

 

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Human Nature…..

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                   HUMAN NATURE…..  humn 2                                 We are both light and darkness. We will always have both these elements in us—- we can never have only one of the elements. And it is precisely this co-existence of polarly contradictory elements that makes us HUMAN… neither god nor devil…. neither angel nor beast…. 

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unknown….

 

With all those ideas and concepts in varying degrees as seen in the letters, I believe that the mind is not large enough to contain itself. But, where can that part of it be which they do not contain? Is it outside itself and not within?

 

crossroads….

 

 

 

 

 

Have such crossroads occurred in your life wherein two choices

you extremely like give you a lot of confusion?

What have you decided?

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So these are what celebrities have got to say about crossroads.

 

I write about love, but it’s me wanting to be in love. I’ve never been in love. I love my mom, my dad. I want to be in love. I think I have to allow myself to get there. I’m just so in love with music. It’s weird. I’m at a crossroads because I want to be in love.

Charlie Puth
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I had a role in ‘Crossroads’ when I was about 21, and then I went on to perform in ‘Small Change’ and then ‘Piaf’ in the Donmar Warehouse, London, and it was when I was there that some casting directors spotted me. Luke Evans
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I’ve seen people go through divorces and stuff, crossroads that don’t end well. Often.

Jennifer Aniston
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How many crossroads are you allowed to have in life? I seem to have a lot of crossroads. I think maybe I crossed back across the same road too often. Queen Latifah
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There are two ways to go when you hit that crossroads in your life: There is the bad way, when you sort of give up, and then there is the really hard way, when you fight back. I went the hard way and came out of it okay. Now, I’m sitting here and doing great. Matthew Perry
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Our world is at the crossroads. We have a choice, right and wrong. LL Cool J
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Everybody has that point in their life where you hit a crossroads and you’ve had a bunch of bad days and there’s different ways you can deal with it and the way I dealt with it was I just turned completely to music. Taylor Swift

 

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