talk the TALK….

When I am offended/insulted, I train my mind to believe that they are hurting me not because I am who I am but because they are them. I ought to discern how meritorious their pronouncements and analyse the kind of talker and type of thinker they are…… In psychoanalytic viewpoint, those people are not nice because they are probably wounded…..   So this is my overriding principle, “how can I talk the talk?”