Sexiness for me is not always about who is sexy but what is sexy. A sexy one is not a toxic to other people’s lives. He/she is respectful and solicitous of the well-being of others. He/she is polite to everybody, everywhere and everytime. He/she makes other people feel they are important and all in all, he/she is personally winsome. Sexiness is in the presentation where we should know what we are doing… and we project ourselves positively. It is looking sharp, feeling sharp and being sharp.